Once I learned to move, turn, and stop, I learned transitions from tutorials on youtube, and then I learned how to go up and down ramps, and from there I worked on developping park basics like pumping and dropping in and 180s, and then once I could pump I learned to stall, and then I learned more stalls--at some point during all this I learned to skate sidestance and never stopped--but I'd neglected to practice 180s on ramps so I got scared of it for a bit even though it was stupid to be afraid of such a simple skill (but everything in skating is risky) but I got over it and did that and then it took me a whole year to fakie stall and then I learned backsides. I can do rails but I'm afraid of them and need someone to hold me but I have the best skate community so that's good, I don't know where I'd be without them, I love everyone I skate with even if I'm super awkward sometimes and can barely talk

🛼💫 Flexa's Trick Diary 🤯🛼

What is Park Roller Skating??

Park roller skating is exactly what it sounds like--doing tricks in a skatepark on quad roller skates ("quads", the classic 4-wheels, 2 in front, 2 in back). It experienced a resurgence in popularity during the 2020 pandemic, and it sparked curiosity. I messaged my high school friend who was posting videos of her skating for information and later that year, I got my first pair of quads.

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Moxi Beach Bunny skates in peach with Grindstone heartstopper toe stops.

Initially, my plan was just to roll around and see what happened. The most clearly delineated space for skating happened to be the skatepark. Somehow, I never once questioned whether or not I belonged there. The history of women and LGBT+ people in skateparks is full of targeted gatekeeping from sk8r bois. It helped that the park I first learned in was extremely quiet. Any boys who showed up paid me no mind. My sister and I were free to practice our skills, each new move "unlocked" a fresh source of dopamine. We were visiting our parents for a few weeks and had all the time in the world to improve.

When I returned to Montréal, I went looking for a community and found what was then called CIB Montréal. CIB, or Community in Bowls, used to have chapters around the world that organized skate meetups. While CIB as an entity disbanded, many of the groups formed under it have remained under new names. This group is now Montréal Aggressive Roller Skating (MARS). At my first meetup, I shyly stood by the halfpipe as more experienced skaters whizzed past, sometimes going from the ramp to a wooden bench on the deck. It was certainly intimidating. However, the easiest way to attract quad skaters is to be one. They noticed my setup and took me in. I showed off what I'd learned with my sister to some fellow beginners and I was set on returning ever since.

My interest only grew over time. Eventually, I upgraded my setup to something more suited to take a beating:

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Bont Parkstars in teal with pink Brunny slide blocks and 8Lives wheels. Graffiti translates to "fuck your patriarchy, long live the skate-triarchy". We love a pun that works bilingually!!

Community is the best part of skating. In a world that has become increasingly transactional, it is refreshing to have a place where you can share tips without any expectation of payment. The satisfaction comes from sharing a hobby and wanting to genuinely help another person achieve the feeling of something *finally* clicking. With the exception of filming each other, it's also a way to get off your phone and into the outdoors. There's also no objectives outside of self-imposed ones. I have goals for tricks I want to land, but if I'm feeling low energy, I can just choose to roll around aimlessly and have just as good a time. All of these factors make for an addictive loop.

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Me competing at the 2023 Montréal Cup. It was my first competition and a celebration of our beautiful community 💖