Once I learned to move, turn, and stop, I learned transitions from tutorials on youtube, and then I learned how to go up and down ramps, and from there I worked on developing park basics like pumping and dropping in and 180s, and then once I could pump I learned to stall, and then I learned more stalls--at some point during all this I learned to skate sidestance and never stopped--but I'd neglected to practice 180s on ramps so I got scared of it for a bit even though it was stupid to be afraid of such a simple skill (but everything in skating is risky) but I got over it and did that and then it took me a whole year to fakie stall and then I learned backsides. I can do rails but I'm afraid of them and need someone to hold me but I have the best skate community so that's good, I don't know where I'd be without them, I love everyone I skate with even if I'm super awkward sometimes and can barely talk